You didn’t plant the seed of your sexual shame.
But you can uproot it.
The Garden is for you if...
- You want to live a more embodied, joyful, and values-aligned sexual life
- You feel inhibited by sexual shame or self-judgment
- You feel like there is a wall up between you and your most embodied sexual expression
- Your body sometimes feels like it isn’t your own, or like you can’t connect to its sensations
- You feel “behind” or like you’re missing out on something
- You carry sexual values that aren’t aligned with your current beliefs, but feel stuck with them
- Your sexual mindset feels more restrictive and controlled than expansive and creative
The Garden is open to people of all genders and sexualities, without geographic restriction. It is limited to 25 members for all of 2026.
The Garden will run on a seasonal timeline.
Here's what you can expect for each season:
GRIEF • SHAME • HONESTY
Winter
Throughout the darkest season, we'll focus on understanding and uprooting sexual shame. We'll grieve what we missed out on and begin developing our map of our desires, needs, and hopes.
RENEWAL • HOPE • LEARNING
Spring
We're reopening the door to your curiosity, joy, and compassion. Throughout spring, we'll hone in on what we truly need (and want) to learn more about on a personal level — and get you the accurate information you've always deserved.
SENSUALITY • PLEASURE • CELEBRATION
Summer
Throughout our long, warm summer days, we'll focus on embodiment and sensuality, playfulness and experimentation. You'll get to put your new information into practice and figure out what feels authentically good to you.
ALIGNMENT • CONFIDENCE• SUSTAINABILITY
Fall
Throughout the harvest season, we'll reflect back on where we've come from — and where we still can go. We'll fine-tune our maps for future growth while honoring our past selves who carried us through it all.
What's Included
🌱 A two-hour deep dive session with Cassandra on our themed topic
🌱 A guest speaker to lead seasonal workshops
🌱 Two 90-minute group coaching sessions
🌱 Worksheets, private practices, audio guides to deepen the work on your own schedule
🌱 Asynchronous Q&A (anonymous and open)
🌱 An online community space with discussion threads and group chats so you can connect with the other gardeners
🌱 Four seasonal gift boxes (each valued at $150)
All live sessions will be recorded, so if you can’t make the scheduled time, you can still tune in and participate on your own schedule. (The full session schedule will be announced in late December).
Hi! I'm Cassandra.
I'm a sex educator who works exclusively with adults. I have more than 10 years of experience working with folks to uproot shame, deepen self-compassion, and build more authentic relationships with pleasure.
My work blends comprehensive, queer- and trans-inclusive sex education with somatics and storytelling.
I've also worked as a victim advocate, standing by sexual assault survivors through their forensic exams. I've led survivor support groups and built support programs centering survivors' needs. I train therapists, victim advocates, and medical providers on gentler, more trauma-informed practices.
In short, I help people get through the hard parts of their sexual story so that they can feel fully alive again.
I know that you can do it — not just because I've worked with thousands of clients and students on their journeys, but because I've lived my own.
I firmly believe that our growth happens in community and in relationships, not just on our own.
Let's grow together.
🌱 Join the Garden 🌺
Membership to The Garden is available through monthly and quarterly payment plans, or at a discounted pay-in-full rate.